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		<title>Bear&#8217;s Television Research Project</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 20:50:45 +0000</pubDate>
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									<div><p>Now, don&#8217;t get me wrong. I already know he supervises my office, keeps track of my snack schedule, reminds me when it&#8217;s time to play, and serves as my full-time emotional support specialist. Those are all very important responsibilities.</p></div><div><p>But recently, he apparently decided to become a television researcher as well.</p></div><div><p>This week, as we settled down to watch my favorite program, <em><strong>The Secret of Skinwalker Ranch.</strong></em> If you&#8217;ve never seen it, the show explores one of the most mysterious places in America, where scientists use sophisticated equipment to investigate unusual phenomena in the bubble over the triangle, at the Command Center, Homestead Two, Homestead Three, the Mesa, and in the skies. My favorite member of the team is astrophysicist Dr. Travis Taylor, who has an incredible ability to explain complicated science in ways that ordinary people, like me, can actually understand.</p></div><div><p>As Dr. Taylor began describing the latest experiment, I noticed something out of the corner of my eye.</p></div><div>Bear wasn&#8217;t sleeping. He wasn&#8217;t chewing on one of his toys. He wasn&#8217;t wandering into the kitchen hoping someone had accidentally dropped a snack. Instead, he was staring at the television, really staring. <span style="font-size: 15px;">His ears were relaxed, his chin rested comfortably on the couch, and his eyes followed the screen with what looked like genuine curiosity. Now and then he would tilt his head just a little, as though he was trying to decide whether these humans had finally figured out what was happening out there.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div><p>Of course, I couldn&#8217;t resist wondering what was going through his mind.</p></div><div>Perhaps he was thinking, &#8220;Well&#8230; if they would simply let me sniff around Skinwalker Ranch for a few hours, I could probably solve this whole mystery.&#8221;</div><div><p>After all, dogs experience the world through senses we can barely imagine. Their noses detect things we never notice, their hearing reaches frequencies we cannot hear, and they often seem aware of changes around them long before we are.</p></div><div><p>Maybe Bear wasn&#8217;t just watching television. Maybe he was evaluating the team of investigators&#8217; techniques.</p></div><div><p>As the program continued, he remained quietly focused, looking every bit like the newest member of the research team. I half expected him to walk over to the television, tap the screen with his paw, and point out something everyone else had missed.</p></div><div>Whether he understood any of the science is anyone&#8217;s guess. <span style="font-size: 15px;">But one thing is certain. Watching television is a whole lot more fun when your best friend is watching right beside you.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div><p>And if The Secret of Skinwalker Ranch ever needs one more investigator, I know a beautiful golden retriever who would happily volunteer. William, the ranch dog, may enjoy an investigative cohort.</p></div><div><p>Bear’s payment requirements are very reasonable. One comfortable couch. A few tennis&#8230; excuse me&#8230; yellow rubber balls nearby. And, naturally, a couple of treats for every scientific breakthrough.</p></div><div>Dr. Travis Taylor would approve, and I’m sure that the rest of the team would as well!</div><div> </div>								</div>
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		<title>While We Sleep, the night visitors arrive</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2026 19:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Every evening, something remarkable happens that most of us never see. The porch lights go dark. The televisions grow quiet. Cars disappear from the streets. We lock our doors, climb into bed, and believe the day has ended. But for another community, the day is just beginning. Over the past year, our wildlife camera has [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Every evening, something remarkable happens that most of us never see. The porch lights go dark. The televisions grow quiet. Cars disappear from the streets. We lock our doors, climb into bed, and believe the day has ended. But for another community, the day is just beginning.</p>
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<p>Over the past year, our wildlife camera has quietly documented some of our nighttime visitors. Among my favorites are the little gray foxes that slip silently into our backyard under the cover of darkness. Unlike the larger red fox, gray foxes are surprisingly petite. They move almost like cats, placing each foot carefully as they search for insects, rodents, fallen fruit, berries, or whatever else nature provides that evening. They rarely waste energy, rarely make unnecessary noise, and seem perfectly content living lives that most people never realize exist.</p>
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<p>One of their favorite stops appears to be a tree in our backyard. I&#8217;ve started thinking of it as their &#8220;point-of-entry tree.&#8221; Whether they&#8217;re using it as a landmark, checking for scents left behind by another fox, or simply passing through on their nightly patrol, they almost always pause there before continuing on their journey. Watching these photographs is a reminder that our homes overlap with theirs.</p>
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<p>We often think of wildlife as living somewhere far from neighborhoods and backyards. Yet every night these little foxes remind me that they have been here all along. They choose different hours than we do.<span style="font-size: 15px;"> </span></p>
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<div>These photos were taken at the point-of-entry tree. I identified the point of entry for these night visitors pretty early on. The full-face photo indicates almost a surprise on the fox&#8217;s face that the camera was there, whereas the other photos indicate that the fox was so accustomed to the presence of the cameras. It’s not surprised at all and not worried about the presence of the cameras. </div>								</div>
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									<div>Gray foxes are remarkable animals. Unlike most members of the dog family, they are excellent climbers and are among the few canids capable of climbing trees using their strong, hooked claws. Their thick gray coat, rusty-red patches, black-tipped tail, and cautious nature make them perfectly suited for slipping unnoticed through forests, parks, and even suburban neighborhoods. That is one of the reasons I enjoy them so much. They aren&#8217;t looking for attention. They aren&#8217;t performing for a camera. They are simply living their lives.<br /><br /></div>
<div>After my recent post about the baby opossums, I was deeply touched by the people who shared their own wildlife stories. It reminded me that many of us still care deeply about the creatures that quietly share our world. The little gray foxes visiting our backyard are another reminder of that connection.<br /><br /></div>
<div>Long after we&#8217;ve turned off the lights, another shift begins. Foxes patrol. Owls hunt. Raccoons investigate. Possums wander. Life continues while we sleep. I consider it a privilege that, through the lens of a small wildlife camera, I&#8217;m invited to witness just a tiny piece of their hidden world.<br /><br /></div>
<div>The greatest gift these nighttime visitors offer is a simple reminder. We do not own this land. We share it. If we&#8217;re fortunate enough to notice the quiet lives unfolding around us, we discover that our neighborhoods are far richer, far wilder, and far more beautiful than we ever imagined.</div>
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									<div>While looking through my calendar of special days for July 2026, searching for inspiration for my next article, I made a discovery that stopped me in my tracks. July 18 was <strong>Nelson Mandela International Day. </strong><br /><strong><br /></strong></div><div><p>I was completely unaware of this special day.</p></div><div><p>I have admired Nelson Mandela for many years, yet somehow I had overlooked the fact that the world sets aside a day each year to honor his life and legacy. Although I missed the date itself, that should not stop me from celebrating someone whose example continues to inspire millions of people around the globe. In fact, that is exactly the point. We don&#8217;t need a specific date on the calendar to remember extraordinary people.</p></div><div><p>Nelson Mandela&#8217;s story is one of the most remarkable examples of courage, perseverance, and forgiveness in modern history.</p></div><div><p>Born in South Africa in 1918, Mandela grew up witnessing the injustices of racial discrimination that eventually became the system known as apartheid. Under apartheid, people were separated by race, denied equal rights, and forced to live under laws that treated Black South Africans as second-class citizens. Mandela believed that no human being should be judged or limited because of the color of their skin. His dream was not revenge. His dream was equality.</p></div><div><p>As a young lawyer, he devoted himself to fighting injustice through political activism. Eventually, his opposition to apartheid led to his arrest. He was sentenced to life in prison and spent 27 years behind bars.</p></div><div>Just imagine that for a moment. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Twenty-seven years.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div><p>Most people would have emerged from prison filled with bitterness, anger, and a desire for revenge. Instead, Nelson Mandela emerged with something far more powerful. He chose reconciliation.</p></div><div>That decision may be the most inspiring part of his entire life. <span style="font-size: 15px;">When apartheid finally ended, Mandela became South Africa&#8217;s first Black president in 1994. Rather than dividing the nation further, he worked to unite people who had spent generations separated by hatred and fear. He repeatedly emphasized forgiveness, mutual respect, and building a future together instead of remaining trapped by the wounds of the past.</span></div><div><span style="font-size: 15px;"> </span></div><div>One of his most memorable quotations continues to resonate with me:</div><blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote><div>As someone who spent more than three decades working in education, those words touch my heart. Education does far more than teach facts. It expands understanding, encourages compassion, and gives people the opportunity to build better lives for themselves and for others.</div><div>Another quote that speaks to me is:</div><blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;It always seems impossible until it&#8217;s done.&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote><div><p>How many times have we all faced challenges that seemed overwhelming? Mandela&#8217;s own life became proof that determination, patience, and hope can accomplish what once appeared impossible.</p></div><div><p>The United Nations established Nelson Mandela International Day not only to remember his accomplishments but also to encourage each of us to spend at least 67 minutes helping others. Those 67 minutes symbolize the 67 years Mandela devoted to public service. We may not change the entire world in just over an hour, but we can certainly change someone&#8217;s world through a simple act of kindness.</p></div><div><p>As many of you know, I often write about compassion, empathy, and looking for ways to make our communities just a little better. The more I learn about Nelson Mandela, the more I realize how closely his example reflects those same values. He reminds us that strength is not measured by how loudly we fight our enemies, but by how courageously we choose understanding over hatred and hope over despair.</p></div><div><p>I wish I had known about Nelson Mandela International Day before July 18. I would have gladly honored it on the proper day. But perhaps discovering it afterward carries its own lesson. Learning is not confined to a calendar. Neither is gratitude.</p></div><div>So today, even though I am a little late, I would like to say thank you, Nelson Mandela. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Thank you for showing the world that forgiveness can be stronger than vengeance. </span><span style="font-size: 15px;">Thank you for proving that courage is not the absence of fear but the determination to keep moving forward despite it.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>And thank you for reminding us that each of us, through kindness and service, can leave the world a little better than we found it. </div><div>That seems like a lesson worth celebrating every day of the year.</div><div> </div>								</div>
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<p>Every once in a while, a photograph transports us back to a special place. This image takes me back to our home in Arnold, California, where wildlife was part of everyday life.</p>
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<p>Our house sat between two converging game trails. Before our home was built, bears, deer, foxes, raccoons, and countless other animals traveled these same paths through the Sierra Nevada forest. We were the newcomers; they were continuing to live where they always had.</p>
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<p>Over the years, I came to know many of my wild neighbors. There was Rose, a black bear I recognized by the shape of her ears and face. The day she walked by with her first cub remains one of my favorite memories. There was also a cinnamon-colored black bear whose size amazed me, so I measured it after it stood on its hind legs. Graceful mule deer quietly wandered through the yard, and one young buck often rested beneath our deck. Each animal became an individual, not simply &#8220;another bear&#8221; or &#8220;another deer.&#8221;</p>
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<p>California is home only to the American black bear. Despite their name, black bears are not always black. Their coats can range from jet black to chocolate brown, cinnamon, and even blond. Adult males may weigh between 150 and 500 pounds, while females are generally smaller. They are remarkable climbers, excellent swimmers, and possess an extraordinary sense of smell that is many times stronger than our own.</p>
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<div>The Sierra Nevada provides ideal habitat for black bears. Dense forests offer shelter, hollow trees provide denning sites, and the changing seasons supply a wide variety of foods. Bears are true omnivores. Throughout the year, they eat grasses, berries, acorns, insects, roots, mushrooms, and occasionally carrion or small animals. During late summer and autumn, they enter a period called hyperphagia, eating almost constantly to build the fat reserves needed to survive the winter.</div><div><br></div>
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<p>Female black bears usually give birth to one to three cubs while denning during the winter. The tiny cubs, weighing less than a pound at birth, depend entirely upon their mother. Watching a mother bear carefully guide her cubs through the forest is a reminder of how much we share with the natural world. Like us, they teach, protect, and nurture their young.</p>
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<p>One of the greatest threats facing bears today is not the wilderness. It is us.</p>
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<p>When bears gain access to garbage, bird feeders, pet food, or unsecured coolers, they quickly learn to associate people with easy meals. Wildlife professionals often say, &#8220;A fed bear is a dead bear.&#8221; Once bears lose their natural wariness of humans, conflicts become much more likely. Sadly, bears that repeatedly seek food around homes sometimes must be relocated or euthanized.</p>
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<p>Fortunately, preventing these conflicts is surprisingly simple. Secure your trash, remove bird feeders when bears are active, clean barbecue grills, store pet food indoors, harvest ripe fruit promptly, and never intentionally feed wildlife. These small actions help bears remain wild, healthy, and independent.</p>
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<p>Living in Arnold taught me something I will never forget: we were not sharing our property with wildlife. We were sharing their home.</p>
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<p>Every bear I photographed, every deer that wandered through the snow, and every set of tracks I found in the dirt reminded me that healthy forests are filled with life. We are privileged to witness it, and we also have a responsibility to protect it.</p>
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<p>I still miss Arnold. I still wonder about Rose and the other bears I came to know. I hope they are safe, and I hope future generations will experience the quiet joy of watching a black bear walk peacefully through a Sierra forest, exactly where it belongs.</p>
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<div>Sometimes the greatest gift we can give wildlife is letting it remain wild. Let us do our part to keep bears wild by giving them space, protecting their food sources, and respecting their home.</div>
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		<title>The Five Little Lives That Changed My Morning</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 20:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Yesterday morning, I witnessed something I wish I could erase from my memory. I know I never will. A mother opossum was crossing the street in front of my home with her babies riding on her back. Opossums are not fast animals. A mother carrying babies moves even more slowly. Somewhere before I stepped out [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Yesterday morning, I witnessed something I wish I could erase from my memory. I know I never will.</p>
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<p>A mother opossum was crossing the street in front of my home with her babies riding on her back. Opossums are not fast animals. A mother carrying babies moves even more slowly. Somewhere before I stepped out onto the street, a driver came through and struck her. When I reached her, she was gone. Her babies had been thrown into the roadway. Several had already been crushed beneath passing tires. Six were still alive.</p>
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<div>I wish I could tell you I saved all six. I didn&#8217;t.</div>
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<p>As I desperately searched my phone for someone to help, a tiny baby wandered farther into the street. Before I could reach it, another vehicle came through, and I watched that little life end as well. That image will stay with me for a long time.</p>
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<p>I lost time while I ran home for a box and a towel. I placed each surviving baby in the box. They were so little, and they clung to my fingers as I picked them up. One of the babies I had to pull from the mother, as it clung to her for security. I was able to gather up the five surviving babies.</p>
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<div>Fortunately, kindness arrived. Some gardeners stopped to see what they could do. Soon afterward, Animal Services officers arrived. The officers were incredibly compassionate. They assured me that I had done a good thing by saving the ones I could, even though all I could think about was the one I couldn&#8217;t.</div>
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<p>I hope those five little ones will be given a chance to survive. I don&#8217;t know what their future will be, but I hope it includes the opportunity to grow up in safety.</p>
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<p>Opossums are among the most misunderstood animals in our neighborhoods. They may show their teeth when frightened, but they are generally shy, nonaggressive creatures that would much rather avoid people than confront them. They quietly help our environment by eating insects, slugs, and ticks, making them valuable neighbors whether we notice them or not. They are also immune to rabies, as I understand it.</p>
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<div>What happened today wasn&#8217;t just about wildlife.&nbsp;<span style="font-size: 15px;">It was about attention.&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size: 15px;">Whether the driver was distracted, in a hurry, or didn&#8217;t notice the mother on the road, the result was the same. A family was destroyed in an instant.</span></div>
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<p>We live in neighborhoods where children play, families walk their dogs, people ride bicycles, and wildlife tries to survive alongside us. Slowing down by just a few seconds can mean the difference between life and death.</p>
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<p>I am not writing this to shame anyone. I wasn&#8217;t in the driver&#8217;s seat, and I don&#8217;t know what happened in those few seconds. If I&#8217;m honest, I have to admit I wonder whether this was an unintentional accident or deliberate cruelty.</p>
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<p>I am writing because I hope we can all do better. Please slow down so more lives can be spared.&nbsp;<span style="font-size: 15px;">Look farther ahead than the car in front of you to notice what may be in the road.&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size: 15px;">If you see an animal in the road and it is safe to do so, give it room and slow down. Those few extra seconds may save not just one life, but many.</span></p></div>
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<p>This morning, I shed tears and questioned whether I could have done more. I always will. But if sharing this story causes even one driver to pause, notice, and slow down, then those five little survivors and the mother who gave everything for them will not have been forgotten.</p>
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<div>Sometimes compassion begins with easing off the accelerator and choosing to slow down.&nbsp;</div>
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									<p><strong>Author&#8217;s note: </strong></p><p>The main image for this posting is from <strong>iStock.com.</strong> This is exactly how I envision the mother possum looked as she attempted to cross the road with the babies on her back.</p><p>I did not have the presence of mind to take a picture of the five babies I managed to save in the box. </p>								</div>
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		<title>The Rules of Playgroup</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2026 00:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Every week, a very important meeting is held in our backyard. No humans are invited. Mom thinks she&#8217;s in charge because she opens the gate and fills the water bowls, but once Summer arrives, Summer and Bear take over managing the Playgroup.  They have rules: Rule Number One: Every yellow rubber ball belongs to whoever gets [&#8230;]]]></description>
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									<div>Every week, a very important meeting is held in our backyard. <span style="font-size: 15px;">No humans are invited.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>Mom thinks she&#8217;s in charge because she opens the gate and fills the water bowls, but once Summer arrives, Summer and Bear take over managing the Playgroup.</div><div> </div><h5><strong>They have rules:</strong></h5><div style="padding-left: 40px;"><strong>Rule Number One:</strong> Every yellow rubber ball belongs to whoever gets there first.</div><div style="padding-left: 40px;"><strong>Rule Number Two:</strong> If you already have one yellow rubber ball but discover another one nearby, it is your responsibility to determine whether two are better than one.</div><div style="padding-left: 40px;"><strong>Rule Number Three:</strong> If your best friend has the ball, you should walk closely behind, not because you intend to steal it, but because every good friend should carefully supervise the game.</div><div> </div><div>At least that&#8217;s what Bear says.</div><div> </div><div>Today&#8217;s meeting began with Summer proudly carrying one of the bright yellow rubber balls across the lawn. Bear walked beside her with that happy smile that always seems to say, &#8220;This is the best day ever.&#8221; He wasn&#8217;t trying to take the ball away. He simply wanted to be part of whatever adventure Summer had planned next.</div><div>Another yellow rubber ball rested quietly in the grass just ahead of them. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Neither of them seemed to pay much attention to it. </span><span style="font-size: 15px;">Or perhaps they both noticed it and silently agreed that the real prize wasn&#8217;t the ball at all.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>Sometimes the best part of the game is simply sharing it with your best friend.<br /><br /></div><div>Years ago, Teddy taught us an important lesson. Tennis balls looked like fun, but he loved pulling off the fuzzy covering and occasionally swallowing it. Bear and Summer sometimes decided to copy his bad habit, so we retired the tennis balls and replaced them with these sturdy yellow rubber balls instead. They have proven to be wonderfully dog-proof, allowing everyone to play safely while still enjoying the games they love.<br /><br /></div><div>Watching Bear and Summer reminds me how different dogs are from us. They don&#8217;t keep score. They don&#8217;t worry about yesterday or tomorrow. They don&#8217;t argue over who won the last game. They simply enjoy being together.<br /><br /></div><div>Summer doesn&#8217;t have to impress Bear. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Bear doesn&#8217;t have to impress Summer. </span><span style="font-size: 15px;">They walk together. </span><span style="font-size: 15px;">They run together. </span><span style="font-size: 15px;">They investigate every interesting smell together. </span><span style="font-size: 15px;">And then they do it all over again.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>There is something wonderfully simple about that.<br /><br /></div><div>As I watched Bear walking beside Summer today, another thought quietly found its way into my heart. A few months ago, I was worried because he seemed so thin. We celebrated every pound he gained and adjusted his meals until he reached a healthier weight. Looking at him now, I see a dog who still has all the speed, enthusiasm, and athleticism he always has, but he also looks stronger and sturdier. He looks healthy. As his mom, there are few sights more comforting than watching your sweet boy looking happy, confident, and thriving.<br /><br /></div><div>Perhaps that is one of the greatest gifts our dogs give us. They remind us that friendship isn&#8217;t measured by who has the most toys, who runs the fastest, or who wins the game. <span style="font-size: 15px;">It is measured by the joy of simply being together.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>Watching today&#8217;s Playgroup meeting, I couldn&#8217;t help but smile. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Bear and Summer seem to have life figured out.</span></div><div><span style="font-size: 15px;"> </span></div><div>And maybe, if we&#8217;re paying attention, they&#8217;re teaching the rest of us the rules too.</div>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2026 17:59:11 +0000</pubDate>
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									<div><p>Friday, July 10, is National Kitten Day, a day founded by pet and family lifestyle expert, author, and animal care advocate Colleen Paige to celebrate the joy kittens bring into our lives and to encourage the adoption of those still searching for loving homes.</p></div><div><p>It is hard not to smile at the sight of a kitten. They seem to possess endless curiosity, wrapped in soft fur, with oversized paws and playful energy. Whether they are chasing a butterfly, pouncing on a leaf blowing across the yard, or curling up for a nap in a patch of warm sunshine, kittens have a remarkable way of making us pause and appreciate life&#8217;s simpler moments.</p></div><div>Over the past several weeks, I have become aware of several feral kittens living in and around our neighborhood. They are absolutely adorable, but they have also raised a question that I have not been able to answer with complete confidence.</div><div>How do we help without causing harm?</div><div> </div>								</div>
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									<div>A couple of mornings ago, while taking my usual walk, I noticed a small gray kitten lying quietly in the sunshine. As I approached, speaking softly and holding my hand low so I would not appear threatening, I noticed that one of its eyes was nearly closed. My heart immediately sank. I wondered if the little one was injured or seriously ill and needed medical attention.<br><br></div>
<div>Before I could get close enough to know for certain, the kitten sprang to its feet and disappeared through a wrought iron gate into a neighbor&#8217;s yard. I decided not to follow. It clearly knew where it felt safe, and I wanted to respect that.<br><br></div>
<div>This morning, I saw the same little gray kitten again. This time it was standing in another neighbor&#8217;s driveway, watching me from a comfortable distance. Its eye appeared much better, and it looked alert, healthy, and curious. I cannot tell you how relieved I felt.<br><br></div>
<div>That simple encounter left me thinking about something much bigger.<br><br></div>
<div>Like many animal lovers, I have an instinct to help first. I considered putting food outside for the kittens. Then reality set in. We also share our neighborhood with raccoons, gray foxes, opossums, skunks, rodents, and even coyotes. A bowl of food intended for one hungry kitten could quickly become an invitation for many other visitors.<br><br></div>
<div>I worried whether regularly feeding wildlife might unintentionally encourage them to trust people they should not trust. While many of us would never harm an animal, sadly, not everyone shares that same respect for wildlife.<br><br></div>
<div>Sometimes our desire to help can have consequences we never intended.<br><br></div>
<div>As I thought about it, I realized that compassion is not always about taking action immediately. Sometimes compassion means slowing down and observing carefully. It means giving an animal enough space to remain calm. It means recognizing when a kitten simply needs time and when it truly needs intervention from people experienced in rescuing feral cats.<br><br></div>
<div>If a kitten appears unable to walk, has severe injuries, cannot open its eyes, struggles to breathe, or seems too weak to move, contacting a local rescue organization or a Trap-Neuter-Return program may be the kindest course of action. These dedicated volunteers have the knowledge and equipment to safely care for feral cats while protecting both the animals and the surrounding community.<br><br></div>
<div>My little gray kitten reminded me that not every problem requires me to solve it immediately. Sometimes the greatest kindness is to watch, to learn, and to be ready if help is truly needed.<br><br></div>
<div>On this National Kitten Day, perhaps we can celebrate not only the kittens who fill our homes with laughter, but also those living quietly beyond our fences. We can support local shelters, consider adopting if we are able, encourage spaying and neutering, and remember that every act of kindness should be guided by both compassion and wisdom.<br><br></div>
<div>I still do not know all the answers.<br><br></div>
<div>But I think I am learning that love is not measured only by what we do.</div>
<div>Sometimes it is measured by knowing when to step forward&#8230; and when to gently step back.</div><div><br></div>								</div>
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		<title>National Chocolate with Almonds Day: A Sweet Reminder That Joy Matters Too</title>
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									<div><p>Today, July 8, is National Chocolate with Almonds Day. </p></div><div><p>I have to admit that when I first looked at today&#8217;s calendar of unusual holidays, I smiled. Lately, the news has felt especially heavy. It seems that every day brings another political disagreement, another natural disaster, another reminder that our world can be a difficult place. I wasn&#8217;t feeling particularly inspired to write this morning.</p></div><div>Then I discovered that today is dedicated to something as wonderfully simple as chocolate with almonds. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Sometimes that&#8217;s exactly what we need.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>Like many of our quirky food holidays, no one seems to know exactly who first created National Chocolate with Almonds Day. It simply appeared on calendars celebrating fun and unusual occasions, giving chocolate lovers another excuse to indulge. Frankly, I don&#8217;t think we need much encouragement.</div><div> </div><div>The combination itself has a much longer history. Chocolate has been treasured for thousands of years, dating back to the ancient civilizations of Central and South America, where cacao was considered so valuable that it was even used as currency. Almonds have an equally impressive history, having been cultivated for thousands of years throughout the Mediterranean and Middle East. At some point, someone had the brilliant idea of bringing these two remarkable foods together. <span style="font-size: 15px;">The result was magic.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>There is something wonderfully satisfying about the smooth richness of chocolate meeting the crisp crunch of roasted almonds. Whether you prefer creamy milk chocolate, rich dark chocolate, or even white chocolate, almonds add just the right texture and flavor. It&#8217;s no wonder chocolate-covered almonds, chocolate-almond bars, turtles, almond bark, brownies with toasted almonds, chocolate-almond cookies, chocolate-almond ice cream, and even chocolate-almond milk have become favorites around the world.</div><div> </div><div>The best part is that you can actually feel just a little less guilty while enjoying today&#8217;s celebration. Dark chocolate contains antioxidants that may support heart health when enjoyed in moderation. Almonds are packed with healthy fats, protein, fiber, vitamin E, and magnesium. Together they make a treat that is a little more nutritious than many desserts. Notice I said &#8220;a little.&#8221; Let&#8217;s not ruin the fun by framing it as health food.</div><div> </div><div>Perhaps that&#8217;s really the lesson hidden inside this whimsical holiday. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Life isn&#8217;t meant to be lived entirely in seriousness. We cannot solve every problem every day. We cannot carry the weight of the world every waking hour. Sometimes we need permission to smile, to laugh, to share a piece of chocolate with someone we love, or to enjoy a quiet moment without guilt.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>Joy is not the opposite of caring. <span style="font-size: 15px;">In fact, joy may be what gives us the strength to continue caring. </span><span style="font-size: 15px;">So today, if you&#8217;re able, enjoy a piece of chocolate with almonds. Share one with a friend. Surprise a neighbor. Sneak one to your spouse. (Don&#8217;t tell your doctor I suggested it.)</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>Tomorrow, the world&#8217;s challenges will still be there, waiting for us to do our part. But today, perhaps we can pause long enough to appreciate one of life&#8217;s simple pleasures.</div><div> </div><div><strong>Happy National Chocolate with Almonds Day!</strong></div><div>Sometimes the sweetest moments are exactly what our hearts need.</div>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2026 21:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As Americans celebrate another Independence Day, many of us find ourselves with mixed emotions. We love our country. We cherish the freedoms generations before us fought to protect. We are grateful for the opportunities America has provided. Yet many of us look around and wonder whether we are becoming strangers to one another. Some people [&#8230;]]]></description>
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									<div>As Americans celebrate another Independence Day, many of us find ourselves with mixed emotions. We love our country. We cherish the freedoms generations before us fought to protect. We are grateful for the opportunities America has provided. Yet many of us look around and wonder whether we are becoming strangers to one another.<br /><br /></div><div>Some people express their love of America by proudly displaying the flag. Others express that same love by speaking out when they believe our nation is falling short of its highest ideals. I have come to believe that both can be expressions of patriotism.<br /><br /></div><div>Loving your country does not require believing it is perfect. Perhaps real patriotism is believing our nation is always capable of becoming better.<br /><br /></div><div>Our history has never been one of perfection. It has been one of continual growth. Every generation has faced challenges that seemed impossible at the time. We have struggled with slavery, fought for civil rights, expanded voting rights, endured wars, weathered economic hardship, and overcome countless moments when Americans deeply disagreed about the path forward. Yet ordinary people continued working to move the country closer to the promises written into our founding documents: liberty, justice, equality, and opportunity.<br /><br /></div><div>That work has never truly ended. It now belongs to us. Every generation inherits an unfinished America. Our responsibility is not simply to preserve it, but to leave it a little more just, a little more compassionate, and a little more united than we found it.<br /><br /></div><div>Most of us cannot change Washington overnight. We cannot single-handedly solve international conflicts or erase political divisions with a single conversation. What we can do is influence the world immediately around us.<br /><br /></div><div>We can treat our neighbors with respect, even when we disagree. We can listen before making assumptions. We can volunteer in our communities. We can support our local schools, libraries, food banks, animal shelters, and first responders. We can thank our veterans not only with words but by working to build the peaceful nation they hoped to protect. We can vote thoughtfully, stay informed through reliable sources, and remain willing to learn something new. We can teach our children and grandchildren that kindness is not weakness and that compassion should never depend on whether someone agrees with us.<br /><br /></div><div>We can also care for the places we call home. We can protect our forests, rivers, oceans, parks, and wildlife so future generations inherit an America that is every bit as beautiful as the one we enjoy today.<br /><br /></div><div>Perhaps most importantly, we can refuse to let anger become our identity. Disagreement is part of democracy. Contempt does not have to be.<br /><br /></div><div>America has never been defined solely by its presidents, its Congress, or its political parties. America has always been shaped by millions of ordinary people quietly doing extraordinary things every day. Teachers inspiring students. Firefighters risking their lives. Doctors and nurses comforting patients. Volunteers feeding hungry families. Neighbors helping neighbors after storms and wildfires. Parents raise children to be honest, compassionate, and curious.</div><div>Those are the people who build America every single day.<br /><br /></div><div>I will admit that there are times when I worry about the direction our country is taking. I wish we treated one another with more respect. I wish we had found more common ground and less reason to divide ourselves. I wish our leaders, regardless of political party, would remember that they serve the American people and not the other way around.<br /><br /></div><div>But despite those concerns, I have not lost my love for America. I have not stopped believing in the promise of this country or in the goodness of the people who call it home.<br /><br /></div><div>My hope is that years from now, future generations will not remember us only for our disagreements. I hope they remember that enough Americans chose kindness over cruelty, curiosity over certainty, service over self-interest, and hope over fear.<br /><br /></div><div>That is the America I still believe in.</div><div>That is the America I still love.<br /><br /></div><div>Perhaps the greatest way to celebrate our country is not simply to admire what it has been, but to help build what it can become.<br /><br /></div><div>Happy Independence Day, everyone. May we continue striving toward the ideals that have always made America worth believing in.</div><div> </div>								</div>
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									<div>For many of us, the Fourth of July is a celebration filled with family gatherings, barbecues, patriotic music, and spectacular fireworks lighting up the night sky. The colors are beautiful. The excitement is contagious. It is easy to understand why so many people look forward to this holiday every year.<br /><br /></div><div>But while we are admiring the display overhead, many others are experiencing something very different.<br /><br /></div><div>Our pets often hear sounds far more intensely than we do. Fireworks are unpredictable. They explode without warning, echo through neighborhoods, and continue long into the night. Dogs and cats cannot understand that these frightening noises are meant to celebrate our nation&#8217;s birthday. They know that the world around them suddenly sounds dangerous.<br /><br /></div><div>Every year, animal shelters report increases in lost pets during the days surrounding Independence Day. Frightened animals jump fences, claw through screens, squeeze under gates, or bolt through open doors while desperately trying to escape the terrifying sounds. Many are never reunited with their families.<br /><br /></div><div> </div>								</div>
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									<div><p>Last year, Bear was particularly traumatized by the sounds of fireworks, so this year, Jim and I decided to try something different for our Baby Bear. We searched for noise-canceling earmuffs made specifically for dogs. Costco was advertising the product we were interested in. But our Costco didn&#8217;t have them, so Jim ordered a pair online. They arrived just in time for the holiday. We honestly don&#8217;t know whether they&#8217;ll make much of a difference, but if they reduce even a little of Bear&#8217;s anxiety, they will have been worth every penny. </p></div><div>Sometimes love isn&#8217;t about finding the perfect solution. Sometimes it is simply doing everything you can to make someone you love feel a little safer.</div><div><p>The fear fireworks create isn&#8217;t limited to our pets. Many military veterans who have returned home after serving in combat also find fireworks deeply distressing. Explosions, flashing lights, and repeated blasts can trigger memories of experiences no one should have to relive. While many of us hear celebration, others hear echoes of war.</p></div><div>There is another concern that is impossible to ignore here in California. <span style="font-size: 15px;">Our summers are hot, our hills are dry, and it takes very little to ignite a devastating wildfire. Every year, communities lose homes, wildlife habitat, treasured landscapes, and sometimes even lives because of fireworks that were never intended to cause harm.</span><br /><span style="font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div><p>Perhaps this year we can celebrate with a little more compassion.</p></div><div><p>Enjoy the professional displays organized with safety in mind. Keep your pets indoors in a quiet room with familiar music or television playing. Check that collars and identification tags are secure. If you know a veteran who struggles during fireworks, a simple phone call or visit may remind them that they are not alone.</p></div><div><p>The Fourth of July celebrates freedom. Maybe one of the best ways to honor that freedom is to remember that kindness has no limits. A holiday can still be joyful while making room for those who experience it differently, whether they walk on two legs or four.</p></div><div>Wishing everyone a safe, peaceful, and compassionate Independence Day.</div><div> </div>								</div>
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