Teddy & Bear Moments
Every year, the clocks change, and humans go into mild chaos. We grumble about losing an hour, then cheer about gaining one, and in between, no one really knows what time it is. There are reminders on our phones, updates on the news, and endless talk about adjusting our sleep schedules.
Meanwhile, Teddy and Bear don’t notice a thing.
Breakfast time? It’s whenever their stomachs say so. Walk time? Whenever I pick up the leash. Nap time? Always. They live by the sun, their stomachs, and their sense of joy, not the numbers glowing on a clock.
It’s a funny thing to watch. We humans rush around, adjusting our watches, reprogramming the coffee maker, and complaining to anyone who will listen about the disruption. Meanwhile, our dogs look at us, head tilted, as if to ask what all the fuss is about. They don’t have a tiny doggy watch strapped to their paws. The numbers don’t dictate their schedule on a digital clock; it’s guided by something much more fundamental.
The first few mornings after the time change, I found myself explaining the situation to them as if reason would matter.
“Teddy, it’s actually 6 a.m. now, not 7.”
He blinks. Bear yawns. They both look at me like I’ve just said something completely irrelevant to life itself.
And they’re right.
Dogs operate on their own internal clock, a natural rhythm governed by sunlight, hunger, and the need for a good, long nap. This is often called a circadian rhythm, and it’s found in all living beings. While our rhythms are usually thrown off by artificial light and societal pressures, a dog’s rhythm remains beautifully consistent. Their stomachs tell them when it’s time to eat, their bladders signal when it’s time for a walk, and the setting sun might suggest it’s time to curl up at the foot of the bed.
When we “spring forward,” they don’t understand why dinner is suddenly an hour late. Teddy and Bear will start their usual routine, pacing, whining softly, and staring at me with those big, soulful eyes, right on schedule, according to their time. When we “fall back,” they’re just as confused about why I’m trying to get them out of their cozy bed for a walk when it’s still dark and, by their calculations, the middle of the night.
Dogs don’t measure their days in hours. They measure them in moments: the smell of the morning air, the sound of footsteps at the door, the rustle of the treat bag. To them, time isn’t something to manage or manipulate; it’s something to experience.
Watching them navigate these changes with such unwavering confidence in their own internal timing makes me wonder if they’re onto something. We live our lives dictated by schedules, deadlines, and the constant ticking of a clock. We optimize our minutes and schedule our days down to the last detail. But in doing so, how often do we ignore what our own bodies are telling us?
While I’m recalibrating clocks and complaining that my body doesn’t know what hour it is, Teddy and Bear are quietly reminding me that life makes more sense when you stop chasing minutes and enjoy the moment you’re in.
There could be a lesson here. What if we tried to live a little more like our dogs? What if we listened more closely to our own internal cues? Eating when we’re truly hungry, resting when we’re tired, and getting outside to soak up the sun when our bodies crave it. We could feel more grounded and less stressed. Our dogs seem to have mastered the art of living in the moment, a skill we often strive for through mindfulness apps and self-help books. For them, it’s just instinct.
They don’t worry about the hour they lost or gained. They don’t mourn yesterday or feel anxious about tomorrow. Their focus is on the now: the warmth of a sunbeam on the floor, the delicious smell of their dinner, the simple joy of a walk around the block.
So the next time the clocks change and you find yourself feeling a bit out of sync, take a look at your dog. See how they remain untroubled by our human constructs of time. We could take a page from their book. We can let our internal rhythms guide us, prioritize our well-being over our schedules, and remember that the most important moments aren’t measured in hours and minutes, but in love, connection, and the quiet contentment of being right where we are.
So this week, I’m trying something different. I’m taking my cue from Teddy and Bear, walking when it feels right, resting when I’m tired, and not worrying so much about what the clock says. Wish me luck! We’ll see how long it lasts.
If Teddy and Bear can live happily outside the confines of living on a schedule dictated by a clock, maybe I can too.
With love (and a wag),
Teddy, Bear, and Mom
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